Giving awesome blowjobs isn’t all fun and games. Just kidding, it is. But there are some immediate turn-offs for most men. Here are five things you’ll want to avoid to become a blow job aficionado.
1. Teeth
Some men are into light teeth grazing. But it’s something that should be discussed beforehand. If you’re new to blowjobs, take comfort in knowing most people find a natural position where teeth are out of the way. If it becomes a problem, there are two things you can do:
- Hold the penis toward the bottom half of your mouth and cover your teeth with your tongue.
- Wrap your lips around your teeth as you move the shaft in and out of your mouth.
2. Gagging
Most men don’t like it when a woman gags on his weenies. And if he does, it’s an uncomfortable experience for her. You can avoid it by following a few guidelines:
- Know your limits. Don’t shove a 10-inch rod down your throat if you think it might not fit.
- Ease your gag reflex by positioning yourself so your mouth and throat are aligned. You can try this position: lie on your back with your head hanging halfway off the bed, and have him stand behind you.
- Make sure you breathe through your nose. It helps you to relax and keeps your airway open.
3. Disgust
Yes I know, most semen is gross. And yes I know, sometimes a man’s p*nis is less than perfect. But the last thing you want to do is scrunch your face up like you shoved an entire lemon down your gullet. That’s a fast track to limp-land. Bl*wjobs should be s*xy and fun. So even if you might be a little disgusted, hold off and talk about it using your words.
4. Surprise anal
Prostate orgasms can open up a world magic for him. You want to give him a bl*wjob he’ll never forget? Integrate the prostate into your repertoire. But we live in a culture where men are still learning to accept this truth. Putting anything up your partner’s anus is something that should be agreed upon. Some surprises are best left tightly sealed until further notice.
5. Acting solo
Even though you’re doing most of the work, a bl*wjob is still a partnered activity. Invite your man to join you as much as possible. Talk to him, look at him, smile at him. Let him touch you, play with you, and interact with you. Join us in the fun together.
Never again will you stare down the one-eyed snake in terror. Take charge of that king cobra and slay with confidence. Follow these tips and give him an experience he’ll never forget. You’ll know you’ve mastered the blowjob when you send your partner into rapture while enjoying yourself.
