1. He only knows the shallow stuff about you.
He only ever really scratches the surface with you. He doesn’t really try to go deeper. It’s either he’s afraid of going emotionally deep with you; or he’s just plainly uninterested. Either way, it’s bad news. A man who loves you is someone who should never be afraid of going deep. [Read: 7 Signs She’s a Girl You Should Never Let Go Of]
2. He doesn’t open up about himself.
He doesn’t want to make himself vulnerable to you. And the reason is that he doesn’t think that you’re worth it. He doesn’t want to make himself look weak towards you because he doesn’t think that you’re worth that risk. He is just going to want to keep to himself. [Read: 5 Signs He’s Too Immature for a Relationship]
3. He refrains from showing you any affection.
He doesn’t show you any affection because there is no affection to show. You are merely an accessory to his life. He isn’t emotionally investing himself in you; and that shows in the way that he treats you. He doesn’t act like he’s in love with you because he isn’t. [Read: 5 Truths About Relationships You Probably Don’t Know About]
4. He acts too busy for your relationship a lot.
He doesn’t really spend a lot of time on you or on your relationship. We only ever really spend time on the things that are important to us. And since this relationship isn’t really all that important to him, he doesn’t really like to spend much time on it. [Read: 11 Clear Signs You’re With A Girl Who Is Worth Marrying]
5. He doesn’t integrate you into his social circle.
He knows it would be pointless to introduce you to his friends and family if he’s eventually just going to dump you anyway. He doesn’t consider you to be a potentially permanent fixture in his life; and that’s why he’s hesitant to integrate you into his social circle. [Read: 8 Things He Does Which Prove That He Genuinely Cares About You]
6. He doesn’t talk about his future plans with you.
He doesn’t talk about future plans with you because you’re not included in his future. It’s just that simple. He doesn’t try to make you feel like your relationship is headed anywhere. He’s just taking each day as it comes with no real vision in mind. [Read: 8 Signs He’s Completely Crazy About you]
7. He low-key flirts with other girls.
If a man were truly in love with you, he would no longer be interested in flirting with other women. And he especially wouldn’t be interested in hurting your feelings in such a manner. He would never want to make you feel insecure about your place in your own relationship. [Read: 7 Bad Habits That Can Damage a Relationship]
8. He lets you handle all of the planning for the relationship.
Somehow, you’re the one who is always planning for dates, trips, and hangouts. You are the only one who seems to give a damn about ensuring the future of this relationship. He doesn’t seem at all attached or invested in your romance in any capacity.
9. He doesn’t tell you that he loves you.
And of course, the most blatant sign of all: if he doesn’t tell you that he loves you, then it’s probably because that’s really the case. And if that’s what you’re dealing with, then you know that you’re in trouble.