The lack of physical presence in a LDR
Distance is a significant factor in a relationship as it affects both parties both physically and emotionally. This is why Long-distance relationships are quite hard to maintain. Partners may need to stay in different locations for various reasons, and sometimes these relationships mat be formed virtually in which case the partners seldom meet.
Long-distance relationships are increasingly becoming common in recent times. Studies, however, show that their success rate is relatively low, with the lack of physical intimacy being among the top reasons for their failure.
Lack of physical intimacy can lead to a moral dilemma for the partners as they are faced with questions of satisfying their sexual needs by other means. Some of the methods include masturbating or having non-committal sexual encounters. Masturbation is the best alternative as not everyone might have non-committal sexual relationships with other people while still being in a committed long-relationship. It is also not right as it amounts to cheating unless your partner is okay with it.
7 Benefits of Using a Vibrator in a LDR
1. Vibrators help to reduce stress
Studies show that a vast majority of women are capable of reaching an orgasm by the use of a vibrator. Having an orgasm reduces stress; therefore, you will always be satisfied because the vibrator will still get the job done.
2. You have less sexual tension
When you stay for a long time without being intimate, a lot of sexual pressure builds up. But when you introduce a vibrator in a long-distance relationship, it will reduce the sexual tension between the two partners to perform when they meet again.
3. Both partners can play
With the unique technology available today, both partners can play using vibrators made for couples. These vibrators can be controlled from anywhere globally; all you need is to have your smartphones with you.
4. They enable you to get your freak on
It is essential you get naughty once in a while, and vibrators are the perfect solution for those in long-distance relationships. Introducing a vibrator in an LDR is fun and hot, and you can use it when sexting with your partner.
5. Sex toys rejuvenates your vagina
If you are older and in a long-distance relationship, the declining levels of the hormone estrogen can lead to vaginal tightness and dryness. As a result, this could lead to painful sex when finally having it with your partner. To avoid this, use a vibrator to improve the tone and elasticity of your virginal walls and, in turn, improve your sexual sensations.
6. They are a conversation starter
When in a long-distance relationship, you will have days when having a conversation is difficult. Talking about vibrators is, however, a great ice breaker, and it will help to get your spark on.
7. They help to set the mood
Vibrators are great for foreplay, and you can use them when having phone sex with your partner to spice things up.
1. Check out the details before purchasing your favorite toy
Look into the product description of your favorite sex toy before buying it to make sure that they are not made of substances that can be harmful to your vagina or anus.
2. Clean your toys regularly
Always wash your vibrators and other sex toys after use. This will help in both maintenance and hygiene purposes to keep harmful bacteria off.
3. Use a condom every time you share your vibrator
It is safe to avoid sharing your vibrators since not everyone will be as hygienic as you are. The person may not be able to clean it properly after use, or they could even have an STI. If you have to share your sex toys, always ensure you use a condom.
4. Store your toys properly
Store your vibrators and other sex toys in a cool, dry place. Please put them in a place where they will not rub against each other and avoid plastic Tupperware as BPAs and other plastics may transfer to your toys.
Vibrators are meant to stimulate you to the climax that is the orgasm. It is good to know and understand that it takes some trial and error to understand what works for you and what does not. Before you settle, use the internet to determine how they are used and how you can manipulate or set them to your specific desires. Include your partners, especially when you are in an LDR for you two to have intimate moments together.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé