Sometimes when we are going through a hard time in a relationship, we find it hard to express our feelings in words. We want someone else to explain precisely the things we are feeling. This is when we read articles or quotations written by other people as it makes us feel better knowing someone else out there can explain precisely what we are feeling. The authorities are not always sad; there are quotations about romance, Love as well as intimacy. Reading these quotes, especially when you are struggling in a relationship, can hope that we are not the only ones who are in a tough spot. We develop a bond with the writer that helps us get through the heartbreak.
The Ups And Downs Of A Relationship
Relationships are no joke! They can be a roller coaster ride, sometimes fun but sometimes leave you begging for mercy. It’s all about the ups and downs. You gotta learn to enjoy the highs and stay healthy during the lows. Here are a few things your girlfriends can do to silently support the relationship during the lows.
1. Give them space
Being in a relationship is all fun and exciting initially because that is the honeymoon period of any relationship. You enjoy each other’s company more than anything else in the world, but as time passes by, things begin to change. If your boyfriend suddenly starts becoming distant, ask him what is bothering him but if he is having a hard time opening up, give him his space. Maybe after a few days, he feels better and talks to you himself.
2. See if the distance is intentional.
At first, give them their space, but after a few days, if you still feel the distance, try talking to your partner and assess if the distance is intentional. If you think he is avoiding this conversation, take a sign that something is wrong. Analyze the situation, and then try making a mature decision if you need to. Do not hold onto a relationship if you are the only one who wants to try to make things work. It should always be a mutual effort.
3. Try to rediscover yourself.
When the guy starts becoming distant or ignorant, the point in a relationship is one of the worst phases of a relation. You suddenly do not understand the reason why he is becoming distant or annoyed at even the slightest of things. You will feel there is a lack of communication, and you’ll try your best to try to talk to him and make things better but what you need to realize is that you cannot be the only one putting in the effort. If he is becoming distant, no matter what you do will not change his mind. If he decides to part ways, you need to accept and let go. We continue to find closure, and in turn, we forget to give time to ourselves. Try to rediscover yourself and what you want from this relationship.
4. Go out with friends.
Staying busy is one of the best things you can do to yourself when your relationship needs time. Spend time with your friends and family and do something that you enjoy. It will be hard for you to completely shut down the thought of him, but the more you stay busy, the more it will help you distract your mind from making any decision that will further harm the bond.
5. Consider going for therapy.
Sometimes you are going through a rough patch in your relationship. Both of you cannot sort out the differences or even recognize the reason for dispute or difference. The best thing you can do at this time is to consider going for therapy. Couple therapy is of a lot of help if both of you want something to work.
6. Do not make it about yourself.
When a partner is pulling apart mostly in a relationship, we start assuming things and start believing it is our fault. When you start pitying yourself, you lose your self-confidence. This will not do any good to you; instead, it will only become a cause of depression. Just remember that you cannot make a person stay in your life forcefully no matter what you do. Look at the situation rationally rather than letting your emotions take over. Stop the blame game because it’s not you against each other, it’s both of you as a team, against the problem.
6. Do not accuse
When a relationship is ending, we either start blaming ourselves for all the things that went wrong or otherwise, we start accusing our partner. You need to understand that it is not necessary that one of the two have to be at fault. Sometimes no one is at fault; it is just that you are two significantly different people with different priorities in life. Even if you decide to end the relationship, be graceful about it and top it with respect and grace.
20 Quotes All Related To “Boyfriend.”
Start of A Relationship: Puppy Love Quotes
“I want him, and even if it’s frightening, even if I may not be completely ready for a relationship, I want him. Now… And tomorrow, and all the following days.”
“I know that God has opted for some special person for me; I do not need to search for him because I have found him. I love you and will continuously do.”
“Let’s surrender our rights and wrongs. Let’s get into each other’s arms and let ourselves complete each other will the beautiful feeling of love”.
“I love you so much that my heart slips a beat when you call my name.”
“Since the day first, when we met, you have changed me. I cry less, laugh harder, and this is just because of you, my dear.”
Patching Up Quotes
“Love is being stupid together, which sums up our relationship!”
“With you and me, I don’t know what anything means. We’re pushing each other away, and yet I don’t seem to be able to let you go.”
“Don’t ignore the love you do have in your life by focusing on the love you don’t.”
By Charles du Bos
Long-Lasting Love Quotes
“You are the source of my joy, the center of my world, and the whole of my heart.”
“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”
By Hermann Hesse
“Everywhere I look, I am reminded of your love. You are my world”.
“Your love shines in my heart as the sun that shines upon the earth.”
By Eleanor Di Guillo
“I may not be your first date, kiss, or love…but I want to be your last everything.”
“You’re that part of me; I’ll always need.”
“LoveLove lies in those unsent drafts in your mailbox. Sometimes you wonder whether things would have been different if you’d clicked ‘Send’.”
by Faraaz Kazi
“There is a distinct, awful pain that comes with loving someone more than they love you.”
By Steve Maraboli
“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.”
By Samuel Butler
“For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these; It might have been.”
By John Greenleaf Whittier
“LoveLove never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing.”
By Anais Nin
“If we must part forever, Give me but one kind word to think upon, And please myself with, while my heart’s breaking.”
By Thomas Otway
Relationships are an essential part of our lives, but we should learn not to make the entire life about a relationship. It should only be a part of your life, not your whole life. When you are struggling to share your feelings with someone, you often look for other people’s quotations. You develop a connection when you realize someone out there understands precisely how you are feeling. Reading quotes is a healthy way to cope with whatever you are feeling in a relationship, and it may even help you understand your feelings better.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé