There are very few things as stunning and breathtaking as an alpha woman. Her poised sense of self and her kind yet firm ways are a masterful thing to behold.
While others may lack courage and direction in life, the alpha woman knows exactly what she wants, who she is, and she is completely unapologetic about it.
Are you wondering if you are an alpha woman? Read on and discover 7 signs that will show you if you are that masterful alpha woman that everybody loves.
1. The spotlight is always on you
Whether you want it or not, the spotlight is always on you. Your confidence demands the attention of all you come in contact with. At work everyone may look to you for guidance on how to complete a project or for you to take the lead on group assignments.
In social gatherings, you may just be the one sharing the entertaining stories and making everyone laugh uncontrollably. You steal the attention of one and all and you capture them with your energy, your poise, and your all encompassing gift of social power.
2. You live with purpose
Not one day goes by that you don’t know exactly what you are going to get out of that day. You live with purpose and have clear goals for all areas of your life.
The physical, mental and spiritual goals you set for yourself are more than just things you want to accomplish, they are achievements that define you and therefore you pour your heart into them.
3. You are not afraid of being alone
So you broke up with your boyfriend of 5 years? That is quite alright. You are not defined by romantic relationships. You know what you are capable of accomplishing with or without love in your life.
In fact, sometimes you are way more productive when you are alone; so really the break up was a blessing in disguise. Well, there will be another.
4. You understand the importance of balance
You understand that you need balance in all aspects of your life: physical, mental and spiritual. You are committed to thorough work in each of these areas to better yourself and live life to the fullest.
You understand that what you put in your body is exactly what you will get out.
Therefore, you take care of your body as if it was an ancient temple or one of the seven world wonders, which, if we are being honest, it truly is.
While most people are terrified of change, the magnificent alpha woman in you welcomes it. You believe there is no growth without change and no change without sacrifice.
For you, the opportunity for self development is worth far more than the fear of sacrificing the comfort of what you already know. This is truly where the beauty of the alpha woman lies, in your ability to face life and embrace the possibilities for change.
6. You know how to love
While most people may argue that as an alpha woman you are self-sufficient and have no capacity for love, they couldn’t be further from the truth.
Instead, they fail to see that you thoroughly understand your worth and therefore accurately guard your heart until you find worthy individuals to pour your love on. When you do, the love fest is unconditional, faithful and true.
7. You are very much misunderstood
Society has this incessant need of fitting you into a mold and quite frankly that does not work with you. You are unapologetic about your opinions.
You are unrestrained about your beliefs. You believe in what you believe in, and there is very little others can do to change your mind once it has been made up.
Because of your strong sense of self and your uncontainable confidence, you are very much misunderstood.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé