The fact is, if you are a woman and you want to get married, you need to be smart about your dating.
This means avoiding certain male types, but it also means recognizing what you are doing wrong in your dating and whether the type of woman you are putting out there to the male population attracts or repels them.
To figure this out, you can start by considering the list below and whether you, at times, are any of these quite unattractive female types:
1. The bossy babe
Women like this just can’t help it. They order your steps, want to be in involved in making every decision with you and that would have been cool if it stopped there.
But most times they extend the involvement to the point of wanting to outrightly calling the shots. Guys rarely put up with these women for too long.
2. The changer
Just as there are men who try to change women, there are women who try this trick too.
The problem with this type of woman is that she claims to love her guy just the way he is, but little by little, she chips away at just about everything about him. First, it’s his wardrobe, then it’s his taste in music.
Once men sense that she’s trying to erode everything they stand for and enjoy, it won’t be long before they kick against her, most times dumping her out of the relationship on her backside.
3. Jealous Jessie
Jealous Jessie is the woman whose distrust is so high that she’s on the edge all the time. Always snooping, always inquisitive, always paranoid.
Many times, she has been burnt in the past, so she is on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong. But the problem is that men do not want to be judged for the errors of other men. And the more frequent the suspicions are, the more annoying it gets, the more weakened the bond gets.
Men will have no choice but to leave her because they can’t go through life being prosecuted for somebody else’s crimes.
4. Women without pursuit
Guys become very overwhelmed and suffocated by a woman who is never busy with stuff of her own. If she’s ever idle and always seeking to merge every second of her day with a man, it won’t be long before he gets fed up.
Everyone loves, needs, requires space to pursue individuality. Love’s bond should be tight, but not so tight to the point of suffocation.
5. Mummy’s muppet
A man just doesn’t want a woman who returns to her mum for all answers, who shares all about her relationship with her mum and never makes a decision without her because she does not have a mind of her own.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé