Who Is An Alpha Male?
Women are often attracted to confident men because they exude masculinity and make them feel more feminine. This type of man is usually very good looking and relies on his looks and charm for attracting women. He is very confident and sure of himself in social settings and knows precisely what to say to woo a girl. He is a ladies man and has no trouble communicating with the opposite sex. This type of man can be classified as an alpha male.
The alpha male can further be divided into “good-boy alpha-male” and “bad-boy alpha-male” categories. Good boy alpha males are very confident and have a masculine and assertive approach in their behavior and thinking. They are caring, loving, and friendly and believe in living their lives to the fullest. This type of man is undoubtedly charming, and a favorite amongst ladies but might have difficulty settling down for good.
The bad boy alpha male, on the other hand, is masculine with a touch of aggression. He is manipulative, selfish, and emotionally unstable and might be emotionally abusive in a relationship. This type of man usually demands respect from others. Now that Alpha-male is down let’s shed some light on the kind of Beta.
Who is a beta male?
The beta man is very different from an alpha man. While a beta man might not be sure and as confident as the alpha male in a social setting, he is likely to be very comfortable in his skin, giving him a sense of self-confidence. He is expected to be more sensitive and a better listener, which causes many women to look at him as a friend and a confidant. While the beta man might go unnoticed in front of an alpha male, he is the shoulder that women want to cry on. In short, the beta male is the ultimate boy next door. Sweet, charming, sensitive, and shy.
What do Women Want?
In this modern-day and age, where women are becoming more confident and independent by the day, they want men who support them and root for their success. In this context, beta males might be the perfect fit for women, but most women do not realize that. Women are still likely to choose an alpha male because of sparks and fireworks matter, and that is something that every alpha male can assure. He is masculine and charming and knows the right words to get a woman all wound up around him. But in reality, women want men who genuinely care for them and are emotionally available. That is one of the reasons they should date a Beta! Let’s look at some other reasons you should try going for a beta male!
Seven reasons why you should date a beta man
Here are some reasons why women should consider dating a beta male for a healthier and happier relationship.
1. He has interests
Beta males are usually very talented. This might be because while growing up, and their only interest is not themselves and girls like the alpha male. Instead, the beta male is likely to have music, art, gaming, cooking, etcetera. This makes the beta man intriguing and adds personality and uniqueness to his character. Since he has hobbies, women can always find something they might have in common with a beta male. Even if they do not, they are less likely to get bored and enjoy fun dates with their beta male.
2. They are emotionally available.
Beta males are very in tune with their emotions, which allows them to understand their partners’ feelings and empathize. This quality is what makes beta males a great partner for their girlfriends and spouses. They are always there when their women need them emotionally and are still willing to sit down and talk about issues and their feelings. Unlike alpha males, where a conversation about feelings might lead to a fight, beta males will try to resolve problems and are always willing to work on their relationship rather than shoving their feelings under the rug.
3. They do not isolate you.
Beta males are very secure in their skin and like who they are. This makes them great partners as they allow you to be your person rather than the ideal woman they want. They are not threatened by your social circle and friends and try to get to know and like your friends. If you want a girl’s night out, a beta male will likely support you rather than feeling insecure or unloved like an alpha man. A woman with an alpha man usually gets so caught up with the guy and his life and friends that she is often isolated from her friends. This can be very damaging for her self-esteem and can be the start of a toxic relationship.
4. He helps others because he believes in it.
By nature beta, males are more altruistic than alpha males, which is why they are likely to care more about others than themselves. Unlike Alpha males who are selfish and want their interest and needs to be fulfilled before anyone else’s, beta males are kinder and more giving in nature. You will see beta males volunteer at shelters, orphanages, and frequently give to charities. They do this not for their egos but because they genuinely want to help others and improve their lives for the better. Moreover, they are not obsessed with sharing their charitable work with the world. You won’t see them boasting their excellent work or see them take to social media to show off their achievements.
5. They will treat you as equals.
Similarly, beta males are more likely to help around in the kitchen and with house chores. They won’t put the burden entirely on you but will be equal partners to you in the relationship. Beta males believe inequality, and they will always listen to you and give you a say on major life decisions. They value your opinion and will ensure that your voice is heard around the house. Mostly, they won’t shy away from asking you for help and will share their burdens, feelings, and troubles with you. They expect you to be there for them just as they are there for you and will take a partnership approach to challenges and turmoil in life.
6. They respect you
Maybe the most endearing quality that sets beta males apart from all other men is that they have great respect for women. This might be because of their sensitive nature or because they generally are intelligent enough not to let their masculinity get the best of them. Either way, beta males will be nice to you and be respectful towards you. This means they will not try to manipulate you, or play mind games with you or emotionally abuse you so that they can control you. Instead, beta males will respect you, your space, and your opinions and compliment you often for being who you are. They will tell you how beautiful you are and mean it.
7. They make good fathers.
Beta males make amazing fathers. That’s because they are good role models for their children, especially boys. Since beta males are kind, caring, respectful, and loving, they present the perfect qualities for your children to look up to and to adopt. The emotional sensitivity of beta males allows them to connect with their children at a deeper level and gives their children a sense of comfort and safety around their fathers. Most essentially, beta males teach their children, especially boys, that it’s okay to cry and show vulnerability every once in a while. Beta males’ quiet confidence makes them right decision-makers and strong enough that their children can seek advice from them without any hesitation.
In conclusion, while alpha males might be more attractive and more capable of sweeping a woman off her feet, they lack the emotional maturity and the strength to sustain a long term relationship. Beta males, on the other hand, promise commitment and personal safety, which makes them great boyfriends and partners. Beta males respect women, their feelings, and their opinions and treat women as equals. They are sensitive but, at the same time, very sure of themselves, which makes them right decision-makers and healthy individuals. Most essentially, they are great with children and make excellent fathers.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. -why You Should Date A Submissive Man