Straightforward women may come off asВ too dominating or too strong. They might also be labelled as heartless and ruthless. Sometimes, that might be true but that is not the only truth about such women. No one likes to be called that and if someone is all right being called all of this and acting like this, they have probably been through something a lot worse that has conditioned them to become this way.
Also, I do not believe there is anything wrong with being straightforward. It actually saves you a lot of time and a many guessing games in the fights you have. If you are in a relationship with a straightforward woman, it might seem like the hardest thing to take initially but when you start comparing your relation with others, you will be thankful that your woman is straight forward.В Here is why:
1. They give and take equally, they are vocal about it
A straightforward woman will tell you on your face the things you have done for them and the things they have done for you. Try and take this positively, I am not saying that one should rub it in each other’s faces what they do for each other but at least no one will feel less essential. Also, this will push you to give more to your partner and a straightforward woman will always reward those efforts. Remember, with such a woman, the ride might be a little bumpy in the beginning but hold on tight because good things come to those who wait and work hard for them. So, all the efforts you make will not go unnoticed, ever. – Continue reading on the next page
2. They tell that’s wrong and accept their faults
Such women keep it hard to forget and let go of things till they take it out of their system and put it right on the table. They feel the urge to tell you out loud the mistakes you have made and they will not hesitate. This comes off as them being naggy and demanding but at least they don’t play mind games with you. Acting like everything is okay while you are after them all day asking what went wrong, and as soon as you accept it, they throw a huge tantrum about you not realizing the mistakes you make.
A fight with such a woman is like fighting with your best friend. You let it all out, your friend accepts their mistakes and you except yours.
3. They will not compromise on what is essential to them and that includes you
Standing up against your suggestion of not meeting a sure friend of theirs you don’t like or maybe giving up something they love doing but you can’t fit that in your routine. Such women will honestly tell you that compromising on such a thing is impossible for them, this might make you think that they don’t love you enough but remember, if they can give up on something they have loved all their lives for you then one day when things might not be going so well in the relationship, like every relationship, they will let go of you easily as well. Someone who stands for what they love will stand for you as well.В – Continue reading on the next page
4. They are not scared to show their true selves and will love you for yours
They will easily get offended if you try and change things about them. They don’t like to be told that they need to change. Though, if it is something presented with a logical explanation and not as an order, they will give it an honest thought. Other than that, they will treat it as a threat to their true self.
Such women will also love you for who you are truly. They will not try and change the core part of you and they will understand if you decide not to change.
Most importantly, they never take things to their hearts!В They will not hold a grudge against you if you are brutally honest because they know the true meaning of being straightforward and the hassle it saves you from.В If you have a straightforward woman in your life, cherish her. She is saving you from a butt-load of drama.
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This is for the men out there? Do you believe you have a straightforward woman in your life? How has it been positive for you? Let me know in the comments below. And as always, stay blessed and keep the love alive!
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé