Real men are committed men. They understand that for them to achieve their dreams and life aspirations, they have to commit themselves wholeheartedly to whatever pursuits their heart’s desire.
For those of us men who are deeply romantic at heart, we may spend a huge bulk of our lives trying to find the woman we love and can spend the rest of our lives with. Like, can be a troubling experience especially when it doesn’t go our way. And our gender is a proud one; one that refuses to accept defeat or heartbreak. We don’t like it when our feelings get the best of us and that fuels our tendencies for withdrawal. We remain hesitant and skeptical about going after the girl of our dreams because we don’t want to end up getting caught in a mess again.
What you have to understand is that real men, though they loathe heartbreak, are willing to go after the women they love. They make an effort to find success in love and romance because they understand their own feelings and their paternal needs to care for others.
The mark of a true man is his ability to make decisions in times of difficulty. And the decision to fall in love is a difficult one indeed, but you shouldn’t let that stop you. You are a man of all ages, a true gentleman who lives up to modern standards of chivalry and are willing to take a plunge into the treacherous waters of romance.
1. Real Men Realize How Lucky They Really Are
Real men understand that shared love is not a privilege granted to all, and when the opportunity arises, they never waste it. A real man knows that when given a chance to fall in love with an amazing girl, then he should not be foolish enough to turn away from his good fortunes. Not all men are given the chance to be in love with great women who can reciprocate that love. Real men always make the most out of the luck that is afforded to them. When you’re given the chance to grab the girl of your dreams, don’t you ever let that go.
2. Real Men Are Afraid of Loss
It’s foolish for men to think that they constantly have to act like they don’t feel any emotions or like they are immune to pain. Real men are fully confident about acknowledging their own vulnerabilities. Real are also willing to admit that they fear losing the one that they truly love. While a true man is independent and can fend for himself, he knows that losing the love of his life could break him. Real men understand the fear and fight like hell so that their fears never come to fruition. Yes, the relationship might not work out in the end and you might end up losing her, but it would have been better than never having gotten her at all.
3. Real Men Aren’t Afraid to Let Their Women Know How Much They’re Needed
Real men are independent and don’t need other people to help validate their worth in life. But as much as we all want to be strong human beings, there is truth in the saying that no man is an island. We all need companionship, and what better form of companionship is there than the woman whom you choose to spend the rest of your life with forever? If you’re a real man, then let your lady know how much you need her to brighten up the bleakness of your everyday life. Let her know how much color she adds to your black and white perspectives. Let her know that there is no possible way you can imagine a life without her by your side and that your successes will be meaningless without her.
4. Real Men Aren’t Afraid of Commitment
Real men are committed men. They understand that for them to achieve their dreams and life aspirations, they have to commit themselves wholeheartedly to whatever pursuits their heart’s desire. This principle of commitment also applies to the world of love. When they find the girl of their dreams, then they know they must commit to that girl. They remain faithful to her and give her all the love, care, and attention that she needs because that’s what’s required to make this love work.
5. Real Men Give Their Women the World
A real man always wants to satisfy any craving his woman may bear. Real men know that their lovely ladies are queens and deserve to be treated like royalty. Real men place the needs and want of their ladies above their own because they know that a happy wife can lead to a happy life.
6. Real Men Don’t Delay Like
Real men don’t find excuses to not fall in love. They don’t blame their careers, their finances, or their social situations for delaying love. Real men aren’t afraid to fall in love given whatever the situation because they realize that love is a gift and to waste a gift would be sinful.
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