The sad truth about relationships is that they are rarely ever perfect.
A lot of relationships won’t ever have the privilege of seeing itself go all the way because human beings are inherently imperfect, and their imperfections play into the dynamics of the relationship as a whole.
There are lots of cases wherein people fall in and out of love with each other throughout the course of a relationship.
What people have to understand is that so many conditions and variables have to be perfect in order for a relationship to have a fighting chance.
Like alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. It takes a lot of commitment, hard work, time, effort, and heaps of good luck.
However, there’s no getting around the fact that people fall out of love with each other. It always hurts whenever that happens.
If you can spot early signs of your girlfriend falling out of love with you, then that will bode better for you in the long run.
1. She doesn’t seem like she cares anymore
You feel like there’s no effort there and that her affection for you is slowly dying. It’s as if she’s lost interest in life in general, but in truth, she has only lost interest in you. It’s as if all the vitality and animation that was once in her life has suddenly vanished, and you don’t know what to do about it.
2. She no longer compliments you on your looks
Initially, physical attraction is what brought you together. She used to tell you that you looked so handsome when you first started dating. But over time, the compliments started to fade away, and now you’re left with practically nothing. She no longer has that physical attraction towards you.
3. She stops putting in the effort to make your relationship work
She sees that your relationship is dying and withering, and she is making no effort whatsoever to save it from a slow and painful death. She couldn’t care less about whether you two fight all the time, and she no longer has the patience to resolve any lingering arguments between the two of you.
4. Communication is rare between both of you
Communication is always the bedrock of any strong relationship. A couple engaging in open communication with each other is always more likely to survive as opposed to couples who shut each other out. When you and your woman no longer have deep and meaningful conversations, then that means she has probably lost interest in you and that your spark is dying.
5. She acts on her own accord regardless of how you feel
Your thoughts and feelings are irrelevant to her. She will do what she wants regardless of how it’s going to make you feel. If her actions end up hurting you in the end, then it isn’t a problem for her because she doesn’t love you anymore.
6. She doesn’t express gratitude for your gestures
She used to jump for joy whenever you brought her gifts or flowers. She would get all giddy and excited whenever you would tell her about date plans. She used to plaster a huge smile on her face whenever you came home with food and treats. However, nowadays, your gestures are met with nothing better than indifference.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé