Dating an alpha male is every woman’s dream.
No matter how independent and strong you are as a woman, it’s always going to be wonderful having a more confident, strong, and capable man by your side.
In an age where alpha men are pretty much scarce and rare, it’s hard to find, let alone date, an alpha. So here are the traits and signs you need to look for to see if you’ve met such a quality guy:
1. He’s a Great Leader
Alpha males tend to make good leaders when they’re ambitious and have the right skills to back up their ambitions. They’re natural leaders of men because they command respect. People either fear them or like them.
If you’re dating an alpha male, you’ll notice that others will be naturally drawn him without him trying. You’ll also see that a lot of men go to him for guidance and advice. He has the experience, knowledge, and abilities that are scarce. People just know this man has a lot to offer and has the ability to help those around him.
2. He Doesn’t Care What Others Think
All alpha males, to a sure extent, are themselves. They don’t care what others think of them, what they do, and how they live.
While that may be a problem at times, it’s their IDGAF attitude is one of the reasons why you’re attracted to one of them.
Because an alpha man doesn’t follow the preferences, opinions, and trends of others, he’ll stay true to what he believes in, no matter how ridiculous it may seem.
3. He’s Very Confident & Egotistical
Alpha men are extremely egotistical. They’re driven mainly by ego and that’s how they have come to be the capable men that they are.
That self-assurance and self-confidence have to come from somewhere after all. Want to piss off an alpha?
Tell him that he can’t do something. Best case scenario is he’ll ignore you, and then get it done when nobody’s watching
4. He’s Reliable & Resourceful as a Man
If you can see him as being the rock of the relationship, then you’re definitely dating an alpha.
An alpha man will be resourceful and capable because he has been sharpened and hardened through the circumstances that shaped him to be the able man he is today.
He has got confidence in his own experiences to know what works and what doesn’t, and this reflects on your relationship on a daily basis, which makes him worthy of trust and respect.
5. He’s Dangerous, When He Needs to Be
You know you’re dating an alpha when you realize that he’s physically and mentally strong and dangerous.
You know that if he chose to and under the “right” circumstances, he can hurt someone else if it was necessary. And in a kind of messed up way, you like that.
It’s nothing to be ashamed of because it’s good to be with a man who makes you feel secure — that he’s able to protect you and your family at all costs.
6. He Works for Himself Only
Another sign that the man you’re dating is alpha is how he supports himself financially.
Men who have alpha traits usually don’t like to have bosses, even if they can be more financially rewarded doing so. To them, it’s not about money. It’s about freedom.
The freedom he gets from being in full control of his own life is more satisfying than getting benefits, cars, and money but still having his life decisions influenced by someone else.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé