Finding that particular person is a challenge for everyone. This is even more common amongst shy guys who don’t know how to overcome the anxiety of going on a date with someone special. You come across a woman you like, but you are too shy to have a conversation with her.
If you are one of those guys or if you know someone who couldn’t take that first step into dating, here are some tips that might help:
1. You don’t have to be too nice
Don’t be too sweet to a girl to prevent yourself from being overlooked as a possible partner. Be nice to her, but don’t nod to anything she says. You have your opinion and stay firm on it. This shows that you are a strong man who stands by his decision.
2. Don’t try too hard to be someone else.
Most often, shy guys can try a bit too hard to impress their ladies or crushes. But that is not healthy because you can’t keep up with that forever. She might fall for that formidable persona you create rather than the real you.
3. Associate more with confident and outgoing friends
Surrounding yourself with people who are louder and more extroverted will subconsciously help you to relax. You won’t have to do all the work when it comes to approaching women and initiating conversation.
4. Mirror check
Let’s keep it this simple; if you want to make yourself a better person, take a look at yourself, and then make that change. This might sound a little silly to you, but if you usually avoid the mirror, then looking at yourself could reveal a lot about how other people see you.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are.