Boys will always be boys no matter what happens in their life. You just can’t change their nature. Sadly, lots of those men will end up cheating in a relationship at one time or another. In the back of their mind, they could be fantasizing about other women. If you find that your man is doing any of the following things repeatedly then it should be seen as an alarming situation for your relationship:
1. He Keeps Things Personal – He does not talk to you about what matters to him. When men are considering infidelity, they start withdrawing emotionally. Not sharing his opinion might mean your man feels you cannot willingly listen to and respect whatever he has to say. Such feelings represent the dangerous territory, and your man will consequently look for someone who, according to him, is willing to hear him out.
2. He Gets Defensive – He gets defensive every time you casually ask about his plans. Being married or in a relationship should mean being open to each other. Something is not right if your man gets surprisingly defensive whenever you ask innocent questions regarding his friendships or where he was.
3. He Follows Lots Of Females On Social Media – If he follows lots of different women on social media then it could be a sign. If you see that he follows several beautiful women online, then he probably isn’t considering you when he takes a looks at their pictures. Does he like different female photo’s on Instagram? This could be another clue.
4. He Values His Relationship With Friends Over Yours – Getting into a relationship means committing your priorities to your significant other. If your man prioritizes his friends or even some events above you, he could be receiving emotional validation from elsewhere. Not prioritizing your relation means he is pulling away from you.
5. He Keeps Himself Busy Without You – Whenever you happen to be around your man or try to talk to him, does he start pretending that he is busy or doing some other very important task? There are chances another woman might be on his mind if you do not measure up in his eyes. Try to stay busy together while also doing different tasks together as well!
