1. Play a game of seduction
Just getting down to it can be great, but what’s wrong with a little seduction? You may think you can’t seduce someone you know so well and have already taken to bed, but you’d be wrong. There are a million ways to seduce your significant other, and they all involve a little bit of fantasy, anticipation, and stepping out of your routine.
2. Surprise him in new places
Listen, s*x in bed is great and comfortable, but if you’re looking for passion, you might want to start somewhere else, first. How about the kitchen? Think about lovingly embracing him while he’s chopping vegetables, and slipping your hands down, under his pants. I guarantee you’ll enjoy some on-the-counter s*x.
3. Put on a show
Take out the nice lingerie, put on some music and a pair of heels, maybe some red lipstick, and let the music and his reactions guide you. Remember to have fun and not take it too seriously, but I guarantee that no matter how silly you think you are being, he will eat it up and won’t be able to take his eyes – or his hands – off you.
4. Take control
Men are used to being the ones in charge, which is why it will surprise him in the best way when you’re the one who takes control. Push him against a wall, pinning his wrists above his head, and kiss him passionately. Your other hand can go exploring under his shirt and in his pants.
6. Take his vision away
He will love being able to hear you moan, feel your touch on his body and your smell on his skin, but not being able to see you. He will feel everything so much more intensely, and every touch of your body will send him through the roof with lust.
7. Bring back kissing
Bonus points if you keep your clothes on for longer, as well. Kissing is extremely sensual and it amplifies everything you are experiencing, so don’t be in a rush to get over that part and go straight to intercourse. And keep kissing him during s*x, it’ll make everything hotter.
8. Have quickies
Look, we all have busy lives and we don’t always have time for hours-long sex marathons all weekend long, or sex twice a day like we used to in the beginning of the relationship. But being busy doesn’t mean no time for sex. If bedtime is difficult for you, why not… expand your idea of what constitutes an appropriate time to have sex?
Morning sex is some of the best sex because it starts your day on a great note. A lunchtime quickie can also give you a nice, passionate refresh in the middle of the day, and mid-afternoon sex, right before you go out to dinner can also put a naughty smile on both your faces.
9. Talk dirty to him
Is there anything hotter than hearing how much someone wants you? Hearing them present their deepest, most intimate thoughts and sexual fantasies? Dirty talking in bed can not only lead to incredible arousal and enhance sensations in bed, but it can actually improve communication between the two of you and bring you closer, as a couple. Don’t be shy or afraid to tell him where you want him to touch you, how he makes you feel, or ask him if what you’re doing feels good?
10. Be rough with him
You can push him against a wall to kiss him, pin him down, pull his hair, scratch his back, and bite his neck. Order him around – where you want his hands on your body, where his lips should be, etc. He’ll feel like he’s sleeping with a new woman and he will fall in love with this side of you he’s never experienced before. It’ll reignite that spark.