Don’t be so naïve so as to think that the only way to get a man to be addicted to you is to give him constant pleasures every night in back. A man is much more than just a s*xual animal; there is more than meets the eye. You have to remember that a man is a complex creature and there are many ways in which you can arouse his interests in you. You don’t always have to be presenting yourself as a mere object of s*xual pleasure. You can get a man addicted to you by really tapping into his feelings and emotions.
1. Don’t give him everything on the first meeting.
Of course, you can’t give him everything right away if you expect to keep him chasing after you. Be a puzzle that he has to solve. Be a riddle that he has to figure out. Be a maze that he has to work his way through. Give him just a little bit to make him interested; but keep lots of yourself to yourself. Keep it locked away. Save it for future meetings. Give him an excuse to chase after you and see you over and over again. [Also read: 8 Key Reasons Why People Cheat in a Relationship]
2. Allow him to slowly reveal himself to you as well.
Let him trust you. Show him that you’re a person he can really rely on if he needs someone to talk to. Let him reveal his true self to you bit by bit. In you, he’s going to find comfort and security. [Also read: 7 Signs That You’re Not Ready For A Relationship Yet]
3. Give him a challenge to work towards.
Guys always love the thrill of the chase. You have to make him feel like he’s working towards something. You have to make him feel like he has to EARN you. If you make it too easy for him, it’s going to bore him. He’s going to feel like he doesn’t deserve you. But if you make yourself a little hard-to-get, then you’re going to get him hooked on trying to win you over. [Also read: 10 Undeniable Signs your Ex Loves you]
4. Do new things every time you’re together.
If you keep seeing him in the same setting; and if you keep doing the same things over and over again, he’s going to get bored. Maintain his interests in you by constantly mixing it up. Show him that there are many layers to your personality and that you are adaptable. Show him that the more he hangs out with you, the more he’s going to learn from you. [Also read: 12 Silent Killers That Destroy Relationships]
5. Give yourselves some time and space apart.
Make him miss you. Don’t make it seem like you’re constantly making yourself available to him. Don’t be spending ALL of your time with him. Give him the chance to crave for your company. Give him the chance to miss you. It’s going to make him appreciate whatever time he can get with you even more. [Also read: 7 Bad Habits That Can Damage a Relationship]
6. Allow him to see your vulnerable side.
Show him that you trust him. Guys always like to be made to feel like they are people of value. Fluff up his ego by letting him feel that trust that you’re giving him. Open yourself up to him. Let yourself become vulnerable in front of him; and in turn, he’s going to grow and trust you as well. He’s going to rely on you. And he’s going to live up to whatever image you want him to live up to. He’s going to try his best to see the man that he thinks you really see him as. [Also read: 7 Signs You are the Main Problem in the Relationship]