Whenever you get cheated on, it can be absolutely devastating.
Betrayal in itself is such a hurtful experience to take part in already. But when you get betrayed by the one person who you thought would always have your back, then it adds an extra layer of pain and anguish to the entire situation. When you get into a relationship with someone, you are practically entrusting your heart and soul to that person. You believe that your love binds you and that nothing could ever come between the two of you… but then infidelity happens.
And whenever you have your girl cheat on you, it can be a very overwhelming experience. Not only are you left to deal with the pain that you’re feeling from the betrayal. But you’re forced to try to rationalize the situation that you’re in. You’re forced to think about where things went wrong and why she could have ever decided to do something so vile and despicable towards you. You are forced to reflect on a relationship that has caused you so much pain and suffering.
How do you do that? How is it even possible to rationalize a situation like this without getting overwhelmed by your emotions? Well, it definitely isn’t easy. That’s the truth. But at the very least, this article is going to try to help you make sense of everything that has happened to you and your relationship.
Naturally, the first step to healing after getting cheated on is coming to terms with the truth. It’s important that you confront the situation that you are in and understand that this is the reality that is taking place right before your eyes. And once you accept your reality, you will want to find a sense of closure. But in order to do that, you would want to get into her headspace and figure out what could have led her to hurt you in such a manner.
Maybe you’ve already seen it in the women around you before. Perhaps you’ve seen it in the movies or read about it in a book. But you never really thought about the factors that go into infidelity until you became a victim yourself. You typically assume that everything is okay in your relationship. But when your girl cheats on you, everything you know gets thrown out the window. It shows that there is something inherently wrong with your relationship.
But why would she cheat on you? If she were unhappy, why wouldn’t she just break up with you instead so that she would be free to date other men? Why would she be so willing to engage in infidelity knowing that it would hurt you? Well, these are some questions that we’re going to try to get to the bottom of in this article.
1. She wants to have a rebound guy who is ready to go.
She might be thinking about ending the relationship, but she wants to be sure that there’s going to be a man out there who will wait for her once she decides to end things in the relationship. She wants to have a guy who is waiting in the wings for her once she becomes available.
2. She does it to force him to break up with her.
Sometimes, a woman is going to want to break up with a guy, but she might also be too scared of confrontation. So, instead of facing the problem by actively breaking up with him to his face, she’s just going to cheat on him in an effort to force him to break up with her instead.
3. She is afraid of commitment.
She might be a woman who is just deathly afraid of commitment. She might have started off well in the relationship. She was so nice, bubbly, and engaging. But when things actually got serious, then she started to freak out. And so she decides to engage in a kind of self-sabotage by cheating on him.
4. She does it as a form of revenge for something.
There will be times wherein a man will do something wrong in the relationship and a woman will not know what to do with it. She will not be able to find a way to forgive him. And instead of just ending the relationship, he would rather exact vengeance on him.
5. She was never really in love with him, to begin with.
And sometimes, a woman just doesn’t love a man enough to stay loyal to him. She might not have been in love with him at all. And that’s why it’s so easy for her just to cheat and be unfaithful towards him. She might have been emotionally needy, and that’s the only reason she got together with him.