Every relationship gets to the point where your sex life is just another chore you two do together, but to keep the passion going and your relationship healthy, we all need to put some effort in it. So, here are ten easy sexy games that will fire up your bedroom and improve your sexual experience. [Read: 6 Bedtime mistakes that are ruining your skin big time]
1. Blindfold him/her
Blindfold him and lead him to the bed or another location where you want him. Then proceed to ravish him whichever way you like it—slowly, recklessly or teasingly. Not being able to see during the s*x increases two powerful aphrodisiacs: sensibility and vulnerability. [Read: 10 killer s*x spot that stimulate your g-spot]
2. Prison time
He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you. It can be incredibly erotic to be completely powerless and to be the absolute center of his attention. [Read: 8 tips on how to get the best organism during s*x]
3. Naughty girl
You’ve been a very naughty, naughty girl. Tell your partner all the things you did wrong that day then kneel on the bed, so he can spank you with his hand or with a not-too-scary disciplinary accessory. A smart smack on the butt creates a tingly sensation which goes well with other feelings of sex. [Read: 7 S*x mistakes men make and how to avoid them]
4. Open mouth – close eyes
Have your man either lie on the back or kneel with his eyes closed and mouth open. Then proceed to insert whichever parts of your body you’d like to be kissed or licked. Aside of how pleasurable it is for you to get those parts kissed, it’s also exciting for him to see which part will arrive next. [Read: 7 most effective ways to control your s*x urge]
Strip down and face each other on the bed. One of you is the leader and starts with a touch, lick or kiss wherever and however you want it. The other one has to mirror the exact same movement on you. Go slow and continue as many times as you want or until you’re ready to switch positions. This is a great way to show your partner how you want to be kissed and touched without being so obvious. [Read: 5 things you need to know about s*x]
It’s adult version of your favorite childhood game. The next time your partner is on their way home, leave a pile of your clothes by the door and a note saying you’re hiding somewhere naked. Once he finds you, he gets to choose what to do to you. This is a great way to have your adrenaline pumping and pumped up for the rest of the night. [Read: 5 Good reasons why kissing is good for your hormones]
7. Orgasm race
Lie side by side naked in bed and start pleasuring yourself. Whoever comes first gives the other person some kind of stimulation to help them hit the finish line too, and the winner gets a sexy treat next time. Masturbating is usually something we do alone and having someone watch us doing it makes us feel vulnerable, which is a great way for you to feel closer to your partner and deepen your relationship.
8. Seven minutes in heaven
Seven minutes in heaven is a game you used to play as awkward teenagers in your parent’s basement, but why not take it one step further? Set a timer to seven minutes and start the action in your coat closet. The timer sets a sense of urgency and the small dark place makes it feel like you’re doing something forbidden. [Read: 9 incredible ways to get rid of dandruff naturally]
9. Sexy cards
Give each suit a different meaning. For example: diamonds mean kisses, clubs are equal massage, hearts signify oral and spades hands-on stimulation. The number on the card represents the number of seconds each sexy act should last. To make it more intense, make seconds into minutes. This is a great way to tease your way up to the real thing with no big fuss and much fun.
Pretend that you don’t know each other and this is your first time so you need to guide each other’s every touch and move. This is a great way to tell your partner what you like, because after some time, things that used to turn us on no longer work. Or we start to ignore the small things because we know the crucial ones and just want to get the job done. Small kisses and small steps matter, so take your time and enjoy every minute you get to spend together. To get this sexy game to another level, you can go outside to the bar and flirt your way to the bedroom.