1. He Doesn’t Remember the important dates in your relationship
He doesn’t really keep track of all the important dates that you have in your relationship. He doesn’t pay attention to anniversaries, birthdays, or things of that nature. It just goes to show just how uninvested he is in all of the sentimental details that surround your relationship as a whole. It’s as if he’s totally indifferent to all of it. [Read: 6 red flag your partner will get back to their ex]
2. He takes forever to respond to your text messages.
He doesn’t really care much about the fact that it makes you anxious whenever he chooses to take his time before he replies to you. He might not even reply to you altogether. He might just be content with replying to you on his own convenience regardless if it’s prompt or not. [Read: 9 things to do when you feel sad about your relationship]
3. He doesn’t seem comfortable talking about anything sexual
Whenever you try to get sexual with him, it’s as if he displays a significant show of discomfort. It’s either he’s going to just laugh your advances off or he’s just going to try to divert the topic elsewhere. He is clearly not interested in trying to get physically intimate with you because he doesn’t see you in that capacity. [Read: 15 ways to make a guy feel needed and wanted]
4. He avoids spending alone time with you.
He doesn’t really try to spend much alone time with you. In fact, as much as possible, he would only ever want to hang out with you if it is in a group setting. He would find it really awkward to be in an intimate situation with you because he doesn’t really have any feelings of intimacy towards you at all. [Read: 15 important qualities you will only find in a soulmate]
5. He Casually brings up other girls during conversation.
It’s either he’s dropping hints that he’s just plainly interested in being with other girls or he’s just completely indifferent to how you might feel about him bringing up other women in conversations. Either way, it’s not a good sign. A man who is truly in love with you wouldn’t be bringing other girls up too much during conversations. [Read: 10 undeniable signs your ex loves you]
6. He shoots down conversations you might have about marriage.
When you try to talk about serious relationship commitments such as marriage or moving in together, he just automatically tries to shut you down. He either gives you a very vague answer or he quickly tries to change the topic to something else. He doesn’t want to give you anything definitive in that regard. [Read: 10 types of woman you should avoid dating]
7. He Doesn’t make long-term plans with you.
He tries his best to shy away from making long-term plans with you. He doesn’t want to commit to going to any weddings with you as your date. He doesn’t want to say that he’s going to be moving in with you. Any kind of long-term plans will really be off-putting to him during your conversations.
8. He Doesn’t show initiative in the relationship.
He doesn’t really show many initiatives in the relationship. He’s always leaving it up to you to do most of the heavy lifting. He doesn’t try to put forth much effort in actually trying to keep the relationship alive and afloat. He’s just coasting and going with the flow. [Read: 6 signs he is to immature for a relationship]
9. He spends most of his time on other people or other activities
Instead of spending more time with you and on the relationship, he would rather make use of his time by hanging out with other people and doing other things. It just goes to show that he doesn’t really consider your relationship to be a priority. Signs He Doesn’t Really Love You