1. They Want Respect
This is one of the pillars of every successful relationship. All men desire connection from their partners; I do too. I consider myself very lucky because I never had to ask for it, it’s an unfortunate place to be in if you have to ask for respect from your significant other. [Read: 5 Signs the spirit world is trying to help you]
2. Pure Admiration
Admiration and respect go hand in hand with one another. Your man wants nothing more from you than your appreciation in whatever he does for the two of you. The point here is “TRUE” admiration; you can’t be fake about it. Guys can very quickly sense false respect, and they may or may not tell you to stop faking it. [Read: 6 Natural flu and cold remedies that work]
3. Your Companionship
Companionship is vital, most men expect you to be there, and they don’t think they need to ask you (I’m the same in this case). When I have something important, like a massive business launch or a significant event, I always want her by my side, and it needs to happen naturally, so I never ask her, but she still shows up on her own. [Read: 10 Natural ways to increase your libido naturally]
All men want and love help. I’m going to talk about myself here; I find nothing more empowering than her support and the way she encourages me to keep striving for the best. It’s said that behind every successful man there’s a woman, it’s genuine and the same goes for me. [Read: 6 Things you need to understand about s*x]
5. True Appreciation
Men adore appreciation when it comes to the heart. It’s not too hard to do either, all you have to do is thank him or smile when he does something for you when he goes out of his way to make you happy when he puts in that extra effort to make sure you’re smiling. [Read: 6 Health Benefit of aloe vera you must know]
6. His “GUY time
Guys don’t ask for personal space, because it’s not something that’s out of the ordinary or shocking. As long as your guy is hanging with his buddies, you should understand that he doesn’t love you any less by doing that. All guys have a code; my friends support my relationship because my girlfriend is extremely cool with all of them, when I hang out with my boys, she never asks me twice. [Read: 5 Things you urine can tell you about your health]
7. Your Endless Support
Without her support, I would not be here; I would have been a doctor (something I hated being) and would have been living a boring, average life. I couldn’t be here without all of her endless support, and I never once had to ask for it, she always knew the right things to say and do to make me feel like I have all the power in the world to do whatever I want. That kind of support, selfless support, is insanely essential for any man’s self-esteem to be higher than ever. [Read: 6 Amazing ways to boost your immune system]
Self-confidence is something I much lacked, and people use examples of me today because of what she made me. Now imagine this is your guy talking, don’t you feel good that he’s saying such good things about you? That he’s giving you credit to all of his success? He will if you show him right and endless support.
Men generally play a lot of different roles in life, and you must recognize him for everything he does and tries to do. They are sons, brothers, husbands, fathers, so many different roles, and they rarely ever get recognized for it. I realize my girl for every role she plays in her life, and she does the same to me. Ladies, know your man if you want him to do the same.
Men love being desired as much as women or maybe more, but they’ll never tell you that, ever. Flirt with him now and then, relationships without romance are dead relationships. Let him know how handsome he is, tell him you adore him, tell him how much you love him. Men get an instant boost in self-confidence when they know how much they’re desired by the women they love