It’s weird to think about because we are all operating on the assumption that we all yearn for love. And yet, a lot of us can’t tell what love is even when it’s standing right in front of us. A lot of us are attracted to the idea of love, but we still can’t distinguish whether what we’re experiencing is the legitimate kind of love. It’s understandable, though. A lot of people will tell you that they love you even when they don’t mean it. A lot of people can fall victim to false claims of love, and they end up getting hurt and heartbroken in the end.
That’s why there are lots of people who are skeptical whenever someone tells them that they love them. But it shouldn’t be so complicated, right? Love is an innate aspect of all of our lives. Every day, love continues to build up inside us, and we want to be able to manifest that love in the presence of other people. So we know what love feels and how it’s supposed to look like. It’s just hard to tell sometimes whether a person’s intentions are true or not.
If you are one of those people who are just overly skeptical, then maybe this article is for you. You should still be able to discern the legitimacy and sincerity of your partner’s feelings for you by seeking out the signs. You don’t always have to be hearing “I love you” from your partner to reassure yourself of your love affair. You have to remember that actions speak louder than words, and that applies even to love. There are plenty of means in which your boyfriend acts to express his/her love for you without you even taking much notice.
1. He never fails to notice the little things.
The little things about you never fail to escape him. You know that you are a vital aspect of his life when he starts paying attention to detail. If he didn’t care much about you, he wouldn’t be dissecting every aspect of your lives together. He would probably be too caught up with the bigger picture. When a man is genuinely in love with you, not only is he keeping in mind the bigger picture, but he will never fail to notice the delicate intricacies that make up the whole of your relationship. He knows that the little things are just as valuable and as important as the big things.
2. He dedicates a vast bulk of his time to you.
Time is the scarcest resource in the world that no one could ever get enough of. All of us in the world just want a little more time every day to do the things that we want to do and to go to the places where we want to go. That’s why you shouldn’t be taking for granted the fact that he allots a vast bulk of his time every day so that he can be with you. When a person willingly gives you his time, then that means you are someone important in his life; you are someone he is choosing to prioritize over anything else.
3. He never makes you feel uninvolved or closed off in his life.
He would never act cold or closed off when it comes to you. He would never want to make you feel like you don’t matter to him. He would always make sure to keep you in the loop about his life. He would consult you about every major decision he would have to make. He would never willingly withhold crucial information for you. When it comes to you, his life is practically an open book because of how much he trusts you. He genuinely values your input, and he always wants to give you unrestricted access to his world.
4. He leaves no space for you to feel worried.
He’s always keeping you informed of where he stands in the relationship. He won’t leave you second-guessing him or his intentions in any manner. He will always be willing to have long and difficult conversations with you just to put your mind at ease. He still wants to make you feel safe and secure in the relationship, and he would do anything in his power to ensure that.
5. He has mastered the art of non-verbal communication with you.
You guys have established an emotional bond and connection with one another that is unparalleled. You just have this chemistry going on that is rare to find in a lot of couples. He knows how you’re feeling only by looking at your face. You don’t even need to tell him about what you need in a particular moment because he’s already off fetching it for you. There is a natural synergy there that exists between the both of you, and it just works well.
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