If you’re wondering whether or not someone is your soulmate then chances are you’re in a rut. Below are some of the things that make up a soulmate that will only make sense when you’ve found yours. While you may think you understand them all now, you cannot and will not truly understand them until your soulmate has made his or her way into your life.
13 Components Your Soulmate Will Not Be Lacking:
1. You bring out the best in one another.
Your soulmate is going to bring out the best in you and you are going to bring out the best in him or her. [Read: 5 Good Reasons why masturbating is good for you]
2. Respect is mutual and non-negotiable.
Neither one of you is disrespectful to the other. You both pay close attention to boundaries and don’t push the limits. This is not something you find often in this sad world we live in. [Read: 8 important things you should know about your underwear]
3. This relationship is much easier than any other you’ve had.
While you might have thought you were in a soulmate relationship before, you know now you were not. This true soulmate connection is much easier even in the worst parts than any other relationship you’ve ever had. You know in your heart that leaving is not going to reduce the way you feel about this person and you are able to work through almost any issues. [Read: 8 Common new relationship mistakes you are making]
4. You have a strong friendship with or without the relationship.
You were friends before anything else. You both grew together before taking the chance to see if the puzzle pieces fit. You are bonded whether you are romantically together or not.
5. Both of you have your needs met no matter what.
In this relationship, you and your soulmate both have your needs met. No one is being neglected and everyone has what they need. Affection is never withheld and everything is as it should be overall. [Read: 6 Signs you have found the right person]
6. You feel more secure than you ever have before.
You know that this person is not going to hurt you and this person knows the same regarding you. You are both secure. He or she makes you feel very much at home.
7. You both see a future together.
This person sees a future with you and you both talk about it often. You have similar plans for the years to come and are aligned properly. The direction you’re headed is quite similar.
8. You push one another to do and be more of what you want most.
You both go out of your way to make sure the other is chasing his or her dreams. Your soulmate wants to see you succeed in all the ways you’ve imagined throughout your growth. He or she is your biggest fan. Qualities of a Soulmate
9. You understand this person and he or she understands you.
Your soulmate is going to be the person who understands you the most in this world. He or she will feel you on a level that no one else ever has and you will do the same for him or her. It will be as if you are looking at someone who is a part of you because you are.
10. Trust comes without fear with this person.
Trust is something that you can and do offer this person without being afraid that he or she is going to make you regret it. This person from the very beginning was very trusting and still is even now. There are no secrets.
11. You feel something special within when you’re around this person.
This person makes you feel like you’ve never felt before. You both know the feelings you have for one another are not like anything else. There is a real connection present.
12. You can confide in him or her completely.
This person is someone you can tell anything to. You both communicate properly and nothing is ever hidden within the relationship. Your soulmate is not going to want to squash the voice within you and will always be willing to sit down and talk things out when issues arise. You are on the same page when it comes to this kind of thing.
13. Flaws are not a turn off in this relationship.
Your soulmate is not going to be perfect, but he or she will be perfect for you. In other relationships, flaws might be a big turn off and make you want to leave but in this one, you are able to overlook them and even come to like them. Our imperfections are what make us perfect in many ways and that is something that you learn quickly when you’ve finally found your soulmate.
If these things aren’t present in the person you’re with or the relationship you’re working on, you’re not with your soulmate. False soulmates are everywhere and while they may feel great for a while things begin to shatter once all is said and done. You will find the person you’re meant to be with someday, don’t give up on love.