There are lots of reasons to wait before dating after a breakup. Knowing what they are can save you a ton of heartache.
It is sad to end a relationship, and you might want those feelings back so you try to start a new one right away.
That isn’t always a good idea because you haven’t given yourself time to get over the previous man.
Once you know the reasons to wait before dating after a breakup, it will be easy to take a break and focus on yourself before you have a new man in your life.
1. YOU’LL BE BRINGING LUGGAGE INTO YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP
And I don’t mean Louis Vitton.
I mean all the bad luggage.
If your ex was untrustworthy, you will have trust issues and if he was a jerk, you’ll presume your new beau is a jerk, etc.
In short you’ll make the new guy pay for all the past sins of your last lover, which is unfair and sets your new relationship up to fail.
Taking time to get rid of the baggage from the last man is one of the best reasons to wait before dating after a breakup.