8 Reasons Why you Should Stop the Relationship now

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Here are 8 Valid reasons to end a relationship. Stay tuned

1. You don’t trust each other any more.

Trust is one of the most important parts of any relationship and when you lose that, it’s almost certainly time to end the relationship. The signs your relationship has gone through this is simple – you find yourself questioning the other person’s motives, abilities and reasons all the time. Everything from why she’s acting so nice to you, to how much you trust her to take something that is important to you and respect it. [Read: 7 Subtle signs on how to give your partner space without losing them]

2. You realize you have different values.

We all have our own values that are important to us – security, freedom, a conservative family, a liberal family, an open marriage. Whatever your values are, that’s fine, but when they begin to rub uncomfortably against your significant other, it might be an early warning sign all is not right in paradise and it might be time to end the relationship. [Read: 7 signs your partner is using you to get over their ex]

3. You no longer make plans with him or her in mind.

This one ties deeply into the idea if you’ve slowly been pushing your significant other out of your life psychologically, it’s time to actually remove them. We all make plans for the future, even if they only go so far as the next few weeks or month or so, and your significant other should always be considered as a part of them, even if the plans don’t directly involve him or her. [Read: 10 Brutal ways to get revenge on your ex]

4. You feel negative around your partner, regularly.

You feel disrespected, underappreciated, frustrated, hurt, insignificant, lonely, invalidated, ashamed, or guilty on a regular basis. And you rarely hear “I’m sorry.” [Read: 7 Key Secret to a successful relationship]

5. You feel “hidden” by your partner.

Has it been seven months and you haven’t met their loved ones, Friends or family, who live just three blocks away? Has your partner never posted a photo of you on Instagram or invited you to birthday party or any form of occasion ? [Read: 7 simple steps to stop things from bothering you]

6. You can’t see a future with him or her.

The most important point of being in a relationship is the idea of creating a future together, shaping and designing your life you are actively choosing to share with your significant other. If you cannot imagine a future with this person, then it brings about the question about why you are in the relationship to begin with and why you’re choosing to remain in a situation with which you have little emotional investment. [Read: 8 simple way to make your boyfriend realize your important]

7. You no Longer have any fun

Relationships are supposed to be fun, and joyous, and if you’ve lost that from the relationship, it might be time to end the relationship if you find yourself unable to retrieve and reawaken the sense of fun you no doubt once shared with your significant other. Days have become dull, every attempt at excitement or some happiness-inducing activity is met with malaise or a general distaste for something that breaks you out of your routine. Nothing kills so much as endless, anodyne routine, and that’s the same with relationships.

8. Your Partner Is Selfish In Bed — And Unwilling To Change

There’s a difference between needing to spice things up because they’ve gone stale, and having a partner who’s totally inattentive to your needs and wants in bed. If your partner is the latter, it might be time to cut the cord, even if you love them.

“If your partner seems focused only on [their] pleasure, instead of making sure both people enjoy the experience, that’s a possible sign of overall selfishness and emotional distance

 

 

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